The pain of trauma can be taxing on the human body, mind and soul. Something that looks like a simple act becomes much more complicated when you haven't healed from your past experiences yet. When people go through struggles as children or adults they need positive guidance in order to heal mentally so their future will have hope instead being trapped inside an endless cycle where nothing gets better because there is no remorseful regret for what happened before - Without this kind gesture by someone who has experienced great loss , it's hard not only imagine how anyone could move forward but also survive.